I’m so sorry for keeping everyone waiting. I’ve literally been too busy, or more accurately too tired, to put more than a few words together in a coherent sentence.
I’d forgotten, over the past 13 years since Jer’s last major catastrophe, how intense and time-consuming caregiving is. And I’m 13 years older. Sigh.
Jerry’s recovery is going pretty much according to plan, thank goodness. He had follow-up X-rays taken a few days ago, showing no displacement of the fractures, so we celebrate small wins and carry on.
His leg will continue to be completely non-weight-bearing for about another month before he might be allowed light tippy-toeing.
He is supposed to be doing three times daily exercises given to him by our in-home PT, Sydney. Yes, I said “supposed to be”, because I’m finding it frustrating that Jerry seems less than motivated to actually do them.
Seriously, three sets of ten “sit/stands” (on one leg) does not mean two sets of five with a ten-minute break in between. I know his good leg is weak, and even when using his hands on the arms of his chair – it’s hard work. But not pushing it means not improving. He needs the strength to make it with crutches, or by hopping along with the walker as support/balance, at least as far as the bathroom. 😕
More to come.
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Thinking of you. Glad he’s making progress, and could be getting stronger! My hubby is supposed to do pt also, but isn’t interested!!! Ho, hum!!! After my hip surgeries I couldn’t wait to get out and about…… ?
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Me too! I was determined to be independently mobile enough by May (after the January knee replacement) to drive my RV to a 4-day K9 Nose Work trial. Only 4 months, but I made my goal!
I wish I could think of something that Jer would find as motivating. 😣
Hang in there, Deb. Caregiving is exhausting, especially when the givee doesn’t really cooperate. Celebrate each small (literal) step, and hopefully things will look a whole lot better in the weeks and months ahead. Hugs to you, my friend. ♥
If he was a horse, you could shoot him.